Accepting the truth is one of the bravest things a man can do. But not everyone is brave enough to accept the truth, because balancing aspirations with reality is one of the most difficult tasks. Sometimes people don’t intend to face the truth because the truth is not as comfortable as lies.
Based on my experience and observation, I want to share those truths with you that people do not accept. Maybe you won’t agree with me, but before you disagree, make sure you have had a clear eye on your situations.
5 Truth that People Don’t Want to Accept
1. Your life will never stop poking you.
If you think your success will help you provide an escape plan of all your problems, then you are wrong. Problems never end as long as life continues.
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People make a mistake of thinking, “If they work hard now and get succeeded, then one day they could rest or do what they really want to do with their lives.” You have to face the challenges, and you have to tackle problems even if you are successful. Something or someone will always try to knock you down.
But I think this is the beauty of life. When life creates a problem, you get a chance to prove yourself that you are strong enough to handle it, right?
2. Nothing will happen as expected.
Expectations — it hurts. Isn’t it? What’s your experience with expectations? I think most of you wouldn’t be happy with your expectations. Because things will not always be the same as you want.
A perfect life doesn’t exist. Neither it should, I believe. A perfect life is all about to keep trying to make it perfect until you die. But you know what? You can’t make it perfect.
Instead of expecting how things should be, try making them better for you and others.
3. No one will hold you forever.
I understand you got someone who can take your responsibility. But for how long? A lifetime? I don’t think so. It might be but in rare cases.
You should accept the fact that no one will come to save you. You have to save yourself. What I mean by saving is — just don’t depend on others. You have to take responsibility for your life. If someone loves you, they’ll take care of you in misery; This might hurt you, but don’t be a burden on someone.
I understand, lifting yourself out of the worst circumstances is never easy but if you want to change your life, do it, you don’t have other choices.
4. Only you are responsible for your conditions.
It’s easy to blame others for your trouble. Isn’t it? But you know what? You, only you are responsible for all your troubles. People often blame others for their failure. If you also do so, it’s not your fault. Blaming others for your failure is a natural reaction. Because your brain always tries to protect you.
You may not control the things that happen to you, but you definitely can control how you react to what happens to you.
5. There is no perfect time to start.
Have you heard about the very famous Chinese proverb?
“The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second-best time is now.”
This is the biggest problem of so many people; They keep looking for a perfect time to start. It might have happened to you, too. But the fact is — there is no perfect time to start something new. If you want to bring a significant change in your life, this is the right (not perfect) time.